Monday, October 25, 2010

Life Updates





Thank you to all our family and friends back in Alabama who are still reading this after 2 years of us being here. Yesterday was the 2 year anniversary of us pulling up into this church yard and starting a new adventure for Jesus. While we've gotten to do so many new things while here, it is still incredibly hard to be this far away from the people we love. It's so hard that our kids' grandparents are missing watching them perform in their passion of choice. It's so hard that we are missing watching our nephews and nieces perform in their passions of choice. It's hard to miss weddings of people we love and 20 year homecoming reunions. It's hard to miss being there for family who is having surgery. It's hard sitting at home on the weekends and wishing you could be doing stuff with your best friends back home. It's hard being in a church with no youth group knowing that your teen could really use some Christian support. OK....enough of the blah, blah, blah. Now you know how to pray for us!

MASON- Today is Monday and Mason is home with us today because it is parent/teacher conferences at the Middle School. Landon will be home on Thurs and Friday for that reason and it's so strange that they don't line these days up so that they can be at home together. Middle School Football ended earlier this month and one of the coaches who has a son on the team, decides to take the boys back down to Albuquerque to play in the 7th grade YAFL State Championship in November. YAFL is the league that we played last year, not this year so I can't believe they are letting us enter the tournament. So while we got a break for one week, we are back at practicing football. We actually had a practice game on Saturday against Aztec, and Mason made 2 touchdowns and sacked the quarterback 4 times and I couldn't even keep up with the tackles he made. This was by far his best game ever! Because he will play 13-14 league baseball in the spring, coaches form their own teams (instead of doing drafts) so the same coach he has for YAFL asked him to be on his team and they have started practicing some as well before the snow comes. I often get frustrated at their enthusiasum of sports and how it seems they never want to give the boys a break BUT maybe in the long run, this will help Mason achieve his dream of becoming a professional athlete. It wouldn't be so bad if we didn't live 25 minutes from town. Middle School basketball does not start until after Christmas here. Mason has an 8th grade girlfriend who is as tall as him and her name is Haley Richardson! I asked him when he was going to tell her they were cousins! (My maiden name is Richardson) I always hoped Mason would be the quiet, shy type who would be too bashful to ask out girls or so focused on sports that he didn't have "time" for girls----WRONG! He's Mr. Loverboy and I'm going to be praying more than I've ever prayed before when this kid gets to actually date!

LANDON- Landon seems much happier this school year and is feeling more a part of things here. He ran for Student Council Representative in his classroom against 3 other kids and got elected and was so excited about it. The Student Council will meet after school (not every week) and he still goes to Science Club on Tuesdays after school. Rec league basketball starts tonight and he wasn't going to play this year because he didn't like his coach last year which made it un-enjoyable. SO Mike signed up to coach and Lan is SOOOOO excited now! We will practice on Monday nights and play every Saturday for 6 weeks. Landon still takes drum lessons at Stillwater Foundation in Durango on Wednesdays but that will change to Fridays starting next month. After a wonderful job on room rearrangement by moi, we can now search for a "real" drum set for him for his birthday. Also, Landon has lost 17 lbs since last Spring! He has done so well on cutting back on his meals, cutting out snacks and sweets, and exercising more. It has been his choice and he has done awesome. He is also getting taller and that is helping him as well. He is still very lovable and I am soaking it up as much as I can!
HAVEN- Miss Haven will turn 5 on November 3rd!! So we are in the process of planning her a party. While we debated on putting her in preschool, we have decided against it because she is a smart little girl and she'll be fine without it (besides, she'll be in school the next 13+ years without a choice!). She has 4 friends that will start school with her that live here in the valley that she plays with some during the week. She spent the night with her best friend Maddie Friday night for the first time and did great! But I was sure ready to see her! I know I am telling on myself when I write this, but for the past 2 weeks, she has started sleeping in her room with Landon and is officially out of our bed!!! (Yes, I had an attachment problem!) In gymnastics, "teacher" has moved her up into the 5-8 year old homeschool group because she was a lot more mature than the others in her first class. She still loves it but is only going once weekly but a longer session. She has told me 3 or 4 times in the last 2 days that her chest was hurting her, so please pray for her and wisdom for us. She doesn't cry with it, she just casually tells us her chest hurts and it is very temporary.
ME (LORI)- We have had an awesome (and warm) October but now it is getting colder and snow is probably not too far off. Most of you know how I feel about snow. So I am going to fight depression away and hopefully have the best winter ever! "They" say this winter will not have as much snow but it will be colder. We'll see. I have participated in 2 children's consignment sales recently so that has been fun. I will be done with cleaning cabins at the end of the month and it has drastically reduced this month. Sure enjoyed the paychecks while they lasted! I'm still trying to exercise but am losing my motivation. I'm contemplating joining Weight Watchers and the Sun Ute Rec Center for the winter, but am trying to save every penny for a Spring Break trip to the Bahamas!! Yes, I do have that to look forward to....Cathy and Earl have a time share there and want to take us with them to the Atlantis Resort on Paradise Island! We will fly there and spend 7 nights and I am so excited!!! Maybe this will motivate me to loose weight as well!
MIKE- Mike has had pain in his foot for a while now that seems to inflame at times and go away at times. We're thinking it may be gout since there are some of his family members that has it also. When he adds more water and coffee to his diet, it helps so we need to try some cherry juice next. Please pray this gout away with us! Mike continues to play golf weekly and is obsessed with Alabama football (it brings out the worst in him, especially when it comes to Auburn fans on Facebook- ha, ha!). He is doing an awesome job pastoring this church and people here absolutely love him! He is in the process of adding elders to the church which could bring some controversy so pray God's will for this process. They do not have deacons here either and have been a church that thrives off of business meetings. Pray that the congregation will continue to trust their Shepherd in this reorganizing process. Remember, we have people from all different denominational backgrounds which can present many different opinions on how things are done. I'm so proud of Mike and how he has learned to handle people and church situations. While he's always been an awesome speaker, he has grown so much as a Pastor.

VALLECITO CHURCH- We got our official Certificate of Occupancy for the new building this last Thursday. This means we can "legally" use the building and move things in. Most of the summer members have left and we are getting back to just our winter crew. Children's church has grown and we have been having 6 to 13 kids every week. One of our older members spent the summer with her daughter in Virginia and was exposed to the Awana program while there. She really wants our church to start this but many of you already know, it takes a lot of support and commitment from the adults. The same 3 children's workers can't do Awana's and sunday school and children's church and summer VBS. So while it is exciting to see someone who doesn't work with kids passionate about this, please pray that the other adults will commit to be a part of this wonderful outreach. We still have no one to work with our youth and Mike and I just don't feel adequate. It's hard when Mason hears us every night at Bible time, during children's church, and as youth leaders. It's parental OVERLOAD! He needs to hear someone else for a change. He has a friend that comes to preaching but he is still the only youth in Sunday School. So we are letting him attend at another church on Wednesday nights. Anyway, after 2 years of being here, I had hoped that the pews would be full in winter of people we have reached in this community. I wish I had stories of life-changing surrenders to Christ but I don't. While that makes me sad, I need to remember that there has been life changes and just because they may not be drastic, they are equally important. Mike has led this congregation to a closer relationship to each other but especially to the Lord. The church has grown and there are changes within people that I'll probably never know about. The unchurched people in this valley are so liberal and set on life without God. But God is bigger than the spirit of liberalism, and new ageism and we'll trust Him for His timing. When God calls you to spread His word, our job is to just be obedient and not worry about the results. So that's what I am going to do!
Thanks for your prayers! We love you!

Sunday, October 17, 2010

County Commission Approval!


We finally called for a final inspection on Thursday and we passed with County Commission approval!! It is contingent on approval from the Planning Commission and Fire Dept now and THEN we can use it (officially)!
This is one of the classrooms and we have 2 more just like this one and one that is longer than this one.....

The nursery......
The ramp leading into the building/sanctuary....
The last part of the project was all the landscaping required by the county. Here's the view from my porch.....
The view from the road.....


I know it probably doesn't look like much but it added $5,000+ to our budget. It actually looks very nice now that all the trees/shrubs are planted. Now, keeping the cows and horses out of them is our challenge!
Thank you God for Your provision in this building effort and may the new building be FULL of new believers that we can lead into a personal relationship with YOU! AMEN!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

The Princess-Tomboy

Remember this beautiful little princess that God blessed us with almost 5 years ago?


Well, I finally had to face the fact that my Princess is a full, fledged TOMBOY! Now I love and cherish my boys, but I had always wanted a girl and when I finally got one after 2 boys, I couldn't wait to buy pink, put bows in her hair, and dress her to a tee in frilly, girly clothing. And I am thankful that she still lets me do all that. But her interests have changed over the last half year or so. She never really has been one that played with dolls (I loved playing with dolls!) but she loved her stuff animals and Littlest Pet Shop animals. Now her choice toys are guns, balls, pirate toys, worms, snakes, and anything that looks boyish!
If given the choice in a store to pick out a toy, it's going to be a boy toy....no matter how much I try to convince her that the pink, princess items are sooooo much prettier. Maybe it's because she has 2 older brothers and maybe it's as she told me one day "Momma, God made me to like boy stuff"! I was shocked that she would sit through all the Indiana Jones movies without blinking too. She has a couple of boys that she is friends with and they get along just as well as she does with her girlfriends. Go figure!
Her birthday is coming up in 3 weeks and I have a dilemma. She wants a bicycle.....not the pretty purple/pink Hello Kitty or the pink and light blue Disney Princess bike. No, she wants the red motorbike looking boy bike. So, do I get her what she wants or what I want for her? A friend pointed out that they make boy and girl bikes different for a reason and because she will be learning to ride this bike without the training wheels eventually, I will probably go with the bike I want her to ride to save her from injury from the "high bar". What do you think I should do?
She wants a cowboy swimming party so I looked up plates and found the cutest cowgirl on a horse with pick accents. Do you think this was what she choose? Of course not....she wants the cow BOY with red accents so that is what she is getting.
I am thankful that she still lets me dress her however I like (except for those cute little tu-tu's that are popular now....she'll have nothing to do with those!), and she still lets me put bows in her hair, and I will cherish that as long as I can. As long as Haven is following Jesus, I'll be fine with whatever her interests are and I'll let Haven be Haven. I think she will be athletic and we'll start the team sports this spring. We try to embrace whatever our kids interests are and not try to mold them into the image we might want them to be. While this can be a struggle at times (especially where Haven is concerned), our main goal is to help mold them toward the image of Christ!
Thank you God for my little Princess/Tomboy!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Durango/Silverton Train Ride

Last Saturday, we rode the Durango/Silverton Train that was built back in the 1800's to transport people and miners to and from these two towns. Because the train trip is 3 1/2 hours one way, we opted to ride the bus up to Silverton and ride the train back to Durango. And because of that, we got to see scenes like these.....

Fortunately, the bus was not full so we sat in the back, away from everyone else so the kids wouldn't be too miserable!

I enjoyed the bus ride as much as the train ride because you get the views going OVER the mountain and although I've seen these views many, many times, this is the first time I've been over these passes in the fall and gotten to see the beauty that autumn presents. Also, the bus driver is a tour guide and he narrates interesting facts about the area. Once in Silverton, you have about 2 1/2 hours to eat and shop. We ate at a neat little place called "Handlebars"

The restaurant was full of stuffed Rocky Mt animals and it was interesting to look around there. Then it was time to load up on the train!




Haven tried to rob the train.....but was unsuccessful (maybe it was the little orange end on her gun that gave it away!)
So when you are on the train, you are going through the bottom of the mountain ranges that you got to see from above earlier. But the views are equally gorgeous!

And fortunately again, we were at the back of our train car and not many people were on it so our kids had a little more freedom than they would have on a crowded train.....









There were times that we were on the edge. This was our view down.....


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It was a fun day! This is huge tourist attraction and a pretty expensive trip for a family of 5 (Thanks Mr. Bert for 2 free tickets!). We felt like if all the tourist get to experience this, we should as well so we went for it! It was great!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Emerald Lake Hike

I walk with Connie Allen quiet frequently who is one of the most adventurous women I know!! She is always coming up with a new adventure and thanks to Connie, I have gotten to do so much that I never would have even tried without her encouragement, one of those things being a hike to Emerald Lake. Now the adventurous part of this hike is the fact that you can only get to this lake by hiking or riding horseback and it is 24 miles roundtrip hike. Connie had told me that she has done it 6 times total and encouraged me to do it with her. At first I wasn't interested, but then it became a personal challenge to see if I could do. We planned it for October 1st, and we had 3 other women join us. Those 3 women were Robin Randolph, Barb McCarroll, and Karen Stevens, for a total of 5 women. Barb, Connie, and Karen all go to Vallecito Church with us. Chas Shafer also goes to church with us and he owns part of the property at the trailhead so he was able to get us in 2 miles, which knocked off a total of 4 miles (which we were very thankful for!) Here we are at the beginning of our hike......
This hike was in the Wiminuche Wilderness. Most people that hike this trail prepare to camp and spend the night instead of attempting it in one day like we did....
Here are shots along the route to the lake.....


We had 3 dogs that took the trip with us. Below is Chance and he was just too cute with his little back pack on with his treats in it!!

HELP! Barb saves Karen from the big boulder!!! LOL! (Not really)
We had to go through the forest several times.....
And then there were times when we were out in open fields......




We made it to the Emerald Lake sign! YAY!!!

This is Little Emerald Lake and see that stretch of land at the base of the mountain? That is a strip of land that separates the two lakes. The yellow/orange Aspens were so gorgeous reflecting off of the water......
And here's Emerald Lake!!




It's so gorgeous! It was like a hidden paradise

Whoo-hoo! We did it! We did it! It was a great sense of accomplishment when we made it there.
Barb tries out the water and says it is quiet "chilly"!

I did it! And it was worth every step! By far, it was the greatest physical challenge I had ever faced. We hiked 20 miles and went from 8,000 ft in elevation to over 10,000 ft. Going up hill was tough as we were losing air and going down hill was tough because our feet were so tired and it's rough on your knees and feet to keep your "brakes" on. It was a gorgeous day and we never saw one wild animal (which was my main concern)! We started walking at 8:30 am and finished it at 5:30 pm, for a total of 9 hours. I slept very well that night but my joints and feet were screaming at me! Then Saturday morning, my muscles were aching but other than that, I felt really good. Fall is the perfect time to take this hike because the aspens add so much beauty to God's country. It was a true blessing to be a part of this experience!